Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Awkward


Have you ever wondered what you would do if you ran into somebody that you thought or wished you'd never see again? What would you say? Well since I don't like confrontation, I know I would walk away. Unfortunately the pilot was not able to walk away. He ran into somebody that I used to be friends with on his commute home from work. And this person just happened to be flying on the same flight home as him. I have to admit I felt really bad for him but I was also very curious. She mentioned to him several times she didn't know why we were no longer friends (because you are a psycho), but he just said "I don't know either". And if she believed that she is crazy. Of course he knows, he is my husband. In 5 to 10 minutes she let him know all the details of her very nasty divorce, how she had sold their house and paid her ex-husband $15,000 to get rid of him. How her ex-husband has a girlfriend and that her ex was upset about her current boyfriend. The job she has now, which is flipping houses and exactly how much she is making on the houses. She also let him know that every dollar spent on the divorce was worth every cent to get rid of the a-hole. This person has absolutely no filter and after hearing all of this and more, it reminded me again why we were not friends. She kept saying I don't know why Jody and I are no longer friends. I could give you a very long list of reasons why but I will spare you the details. I met her when I went back to college to finish my degree. I truly didn't realize what type of person she was until I worked with her for a year. She was very toxic and I knew when I quit that job that we would no longer be friends. Her parting words to the pilot were this "Well, tell Jody she can call me, if she wants to". I haven't spoken to her in 3 years and I don't plan to now. I am thankful that I met another friend at that same job because I know I would not have if I didn't work there for a year. So something good came out of it. Thank goodness.


2 comments:

  1. Did she ever actually do anything to you, or was she just completely annoying and hard to be around? What would you do if YOU were stuck on a commute with her?

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  2. I was friends with her for a couple years. When we worked together I found out she was spying on me, reading all my work emails and looking at my internet history. She did this when I was out of the office. I could write a very long list of things she did but I decided I didn't need to remind myself of all of those things. Also she was very mean and manipulative to our other coworkers which I hadn't seen this part of her until we worked together. One story I will share is she called me and was telling me her 4 year old son was an a-hole, when I asked where he was she said he was sitting in the back seat of the car so she could hear her. I can't respect somebody who would ever say something like that in front of their child. I honestly have no idea what I would've done, I'm just happy it wasn't me.

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